Posted by
Skipper Gaston on Wednesday, November 26, 2008 10:36:49 PM
I heard on the news recently that Florida is the ONLY state that forbids
homosexual adoptions. I was shocked! The news also said that Florida's
law is being challenged. It's remarkable how much progress the
homosexual community has made within a relatively short period of time.
Since the passing of Proposition 8 in California, we have been
confronted with outrageous behavior by many homosexual activists in
California, as well as other states. Proposition 8 was a California
State ballot proposition that amended the state Constitution to
restrict the definition of marriage to a union between a man and a
woman. The anger of the homosexual community over the passing of Prop 8
has often been directed toward Christians and Mormons; however, even
within the Christian community, there are various opinions as to how
Christians should react to the homosexual community's relentless drive
towards "normalization".
Among Christians who believe that a marriage should only be between a
man and a woman, some believe that we should be tolerant toward the
practice of civil unions and providing rights to people in homosexual
relationships that would typically be found in a marriage. I believe
that there should be a vigorous discussion within the Christian
community as to the extent to which we should be "tolerant" of
homosexual behavior. It is one thing to love the sinner, but quite
another thing to be tolerant of the sin or to encourage sinful behavior.
When I was a boy, homosexuality was considered to be either a mental
illness or a sin. Back then, homosexuals were still called homosexuals,
and most of them were still "in the closet". They mostly kept a low
profile, but they were still active. There were numerous times, as I
was growing up, when I was approached by homosexuals. It was not a
common occurrence, but it happened often enough that I began to wonder
if there was something in particular about me that brought me to the
attention of homosexuals.
Now, as an adult, I don't think that there was anything different about
me or my behavior. I now think that it was probably a habitual pattern
for homosexuals to be prowling around looking for someone who might be
receptive to their advances. I definitely was not comfortable with such
advances, and avoided such people like the plague, once I realized what
they wanted.
I mention these early experiences to counter suggestions I have seen,
by members of the homosexual community, that children are at least as
safe around homosexuals as they are around normal ("straight") people.
They like to point to examples of abusive behavior by normal people as
reasons why children are not necessarily safe, even when in a normal
environment.
In 1973, I remember hearing that the psychiatry had decided to no
longer classify homosexuality as a mental illness. I don't know how or
why they reached that decision, but I suspect that it resulted from
gradual infiltration into their ranks by members of the homosexual
community. The homosexual community has used that technique very
effectively over the years to expand their influence.
Homosexuals started coming out of the closet, and going public with
their abnormal behavior. They started calling themselves "gay", even
though the consequences of homosexual behavior have historically been
nothing to be gay about. Since then, they have mounted a relentless
campaign to "mainstream" and normalize homosexual behavior, with the
apparent goal that their behavior will not be considered abnormal by
society as a whole.
In recent years, an increasingly activist homosexual community has been
aggressively pursuing the right to legally marry members of their own
sex. Even though the more conservative Christian members of society
have been mostly successful in their efforts to resist these attempts
to redefine marriage, the younger generation seems to be moving in the
direction of a more "tolerant" attitude toward marriages between
homosexuals. The approach of gradual persuasion continues to be
effective.
There is a dark side to the goal of legalizing marriage between
homosexuals that is not getting much public discussion.. One primary
motivation for marriage within the homosexual community may be that it
enables them to more easily adopt or become foster parents of children.
These helpless children will then be subject to continual
indoctrination into abnormal behavior.
Historically, homosexual behavior has been considered to be, if not
mental illness, then certainly sinful behavior; however in recent
years, the homosexual community has been trying to cast themselves in a
different light. They are now claiming that a homosexual is "born that
way". It is very important to their children-related goals to persuade
the general public of this concept; because they hope to counter
society's fears that homosexuals might influence their children to
become homosexuals.
In "The Pink Swastika", a book that documents the extensive influence
of homosexuality on Hitler's Nazism and the Jewish Holocaust, the
following quote addresses the claim that homosexuals are "born that
way":
In a letter to the editor of the Toronto, Ontario, Globe and Mail
newspaper, February 26, 1992, Dr. Joseph Bergen Assistant Professor of
Psychiatry, University of Toronto, writes, "in my 20 years of
psychiatry I have never come across anyone with innate homosexuality.
That notion has been a long proclaimed gay-activist political position,
intended to promote the acceptance of homosexuality as a healthy, fully
equal alternative expression of human sexuality. It has zero scientific
foundation, though its promoters latch on to even the flimsiest shreds
of atrocious research in their attempts to justify the notion."
Agencies responsible for placing homeless children with adoptive or
foster parents must certainly have guidelines that would become very
challenged by prospective homosexual parents. For example, it is
unlikely that a single man could adopt or foster parent a young girl
due to the risk of sexual abuse. For the same reason, it does not seem
reasonable that homosexual men should be able to adopt or foster parent
a young boy. The same reasoning applies to homosexual women who might
want to adopt or foster parent a girl. It is a matter of common sense
that a young child is more likely to find the safest haven from sexual
abuse with a parent of their same sexual orientation (e.g., a girl with
her heterosexual mother).
There is no legitimate reason for Christians to be tolerant towards the
homosexual rights movement. While we must certainly try to love the
sinner, we must reject and discourage the sin in every way possible.
There is no more reason to condone homosexual behavior than there is to
condone adultery, polygamy, or pedophilia; yet that is exactly what is
happening as the homosexual community relentlessly tries to influence
public thinking. In the same way that the Christian community champions
the cause of unborn children, we should be equally vigilant in
protecting helpless young children who no longer have responsible
parents available to protect them. The Christian community must start
pushing back more forcefully, or else suffer great harm to not only the
institution of marriage, but also to our children and families.